The madness continues during the after showwhen Abe sees footage of Cara Maria for the first time. With Challenge season 30 coming around the corner, I’ve decided that we should air out some dirty laundry for the “Dirty 30”.And the thing that’s frustrating is that I’m getting yelled at.

The Challenge is a show about competition and drunken debauchery.

When they’re not competing, the next most important thing is “who’s fucking who?

The conversation, which followed Cara Maria and Abram’s anxious reconciliation, became so tense that Bananas actually hijacked the interview from reunion host Nessa, reading her questions from the teleprompter to move things along.

• In her exclusive interview with PEOPLE, both Cara Maria and Jamie struck back at her nemesis.

reunion to see not only what was really going on between exes Cara Maria Sorbello and Abram Boise but also what hookups, meltdowns, blackouts and more went down behind the scenes.

Spoiler alert: Stop reading now if you want to avoid spoilers from Wednesday night’s winner Cara Maria and her ex Abram, on whom she cheated this season despite their six-year relationship, was certainly not all for show.

Last year was the first time I got to know Abram Boise as someone who wasn’t just a competitor on Challenges and in love with Cara Maria Sorbello.

Heck, Cara Maria isn’t the only person from MTV shows that Abram is dated, but more on that later.

“He’s no saint either,” Jamie said of Bananas, adding that he was comforting his cousin when they weren’t in the spotlight because “I just wanted to point it out [to Johnny] and be like, ‘You know what? You’ve done stuff and at the same time you’ve had a girlfriend, so you have no one to judge.’ ” • Cara Maria takes the indictment a step further, saying, “My biggest aggravation with Bananas is he’s the biggest hypocrite I’ve ever met in my entire life,” she told PEOPLE.