While I still believe what I wrote there, I’m finding that many of the women who are contacting me are not at the point where they are sure if the man is their “boyfriend” or not.

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As I discussed above, I would recommend against being aggressive or angry.

Still, these are areas you will need him to define.

When my profile was still up I did message him while he was online and made a little joke about him being there one day and his response was that when people make the effort they at least deserve a polite ‘no thank you’…but that’s been a month ago.

I haven’t said one word about it since but I am wondering how long to wait.

We have a great time together and he calls every night to chat or say goodnight.

I am really interested in him and I get the feeling that he feels the same way.

You enjoy each others’ company, enjoy the same things and over the next month or so you start to date more seriously. However there is one problem: his dating profile is still active.

If this sounds like your situation, you’re not alone.

You’ve decided to try online dating and found yourself talking to a man that seems promising.