Sometimes, though, emotions, past experience or even childhood trauma can blind you to the point where you put up with lovers or partners who are either selfish or simply not that into you.Luckily, it’s actually pretty easy to tell […] There’s a common and dangerous scam out there that’s targeting mostly (but not exclusively) Muslim men.

Unsolicited dick pics are the bane of the online dating world, and it’s true that you really shouldn’t send them to women at all (you can read more about those here).

On the other hand, getting nude pics from someone you’re actually sleeping with can be a pretty awesome thing if you actually put some […] Being on your own this time of year isn’t always nice.

While it feels shitty to be on the receiving end of it, let’s not pretend women only do it because they’re mean or weak.

There are some perfectly valid reasons for ghosting men sometimes.

I tried to keep things as close as possible to the client’s own words, seeing as the clients were the ones looking for dates and not me.

With summer around the corner (we hope), the thought of sitting in front of a dating app and dating site while the sun is shining might not appeal.Different people have different views about what makes a good first date, ranging from the location to whether or not you’re meant to split the bill.I’ve heard so many first date horror stories […] Messaging women on a dating site is not always easy.One of my fondest memories of my work as an online dating moderator was getting into the office on a Monday morning, making myself a nice cup of tea and then sitting down in front of my computer for a fun hour of going through the new crop of pictures our users have uploaded to […] While editing my biography on this site recently, I noticed that the Google ad block in the middle of the page had an ad about “senior dating”. Looking closer […] We all love OKCupid’s wonderful insights, gained because of the site’s algorithm and the fact that users often answer thousands of personal questions while using the site.Google obviously knows my age (it’s not mentioned on this site), so I rather took offence at what it was insinuating. Apparently, this has not escaped some Danish researchers of dubious ethical standards, who scraped the site for publicly available info (the site is free to use and […] The Internet is, as usual, aflutter after some new bit of research is being touted about, claiming (apparently) that staying friends with your ex partner after a breakup is a sign of having “dark personality traits”.Here are the five golden rules […] Back when I had the time, I used to offer some services to help people with their online dating profiles.