"Yet here I was, husband hunting and armed with only a handful of half-assed bullet points."Online dating is now the third most common way couples meet, with 30 to 40 percent of singletons logging in to some 1,500 services.

In the marvelously titled (Current), writer Dan Slater tracks a phenomenon that started in 1965 with "computer dating"—essentially a digital compatibility test, dreamed up by two lovelorn Harvard undergrads desperate to meet Radcliffe girls—and mushroomed into an estimated billion a year industry.

So when my academy students join they dominate the website and easily meet the women they are most interested in.

On top of that the women only receive a small number of matches per day so they literally can’t be bombarded by messages like they are on other dating sites.

You instead skip to the e Harmony mail and send those same questions.

(Example email below) Women are very interested in your answers to their 3 questions.

I read over & over again that e Harmony was a waste of time from several different PUA’s (that’s pick-up artists) This consistent low view of e Harmony in the PUA community is exactly what I think has made it so good.

The douche PUA guys don’t recommend it, so the PUA minions don’t flock to it, so there is less competition and the guys that do join are just regular guys (not PUA’s) that lack online dating training.Live in the either the United States, Canada, United Kingdom or Australia e Harmony did not start out as my favorite dating site.But I’m in the middle of my 150 Date Challenge now and more than half of all my dates come from e Harmony and I’ve grown to really like it.Ok, Let’s get started with the e Harmony specific details: There are a few ways to make contact on e Harmony but you’ll only use two of them. When to use the e Harmony guided communication quick questions: Start with the quick questions if the girl is somewhat close to your “league”. When to skip & go straight to e H Mail: Go straight to e H Mail contact option if she is a way outside of your “league” or you are REALLY interested in her.” In person, you may be a 8 or 9 but if you haven’t been through the e Dating Doc Academy then your “online number” is probably much lower.Advanced Tip: Have a conversation within the quick-question response area to build more of a connection. Pay attention because these can communicate a lot about you. For example, I’ve seen guys select these breaks: What does this communicate to the girl?