Michelle shocked fans across the nation when she revealed that she had been in a very private relationship with actor Idris Elba.

Much to her dismay, she suffered backlash after revealing the relationship and her breakup from Elba, and now Michelle is opening up about the impact of revealing such a pivotal relationship in her life. Michelle explains why she kept mum about the relationship for so long.

The only times many of his fans got a glimpse into his love-life was when he was seen on red carpets with on-again-off-again girlfriend, Naiyana Garth. Michelle, telling all his business about dating her and then realizing she was his side chick, because his real chick at that time, (Naiyana), became pregnant with their son at the same time K. Well now, the good people of Somali, Africa are lighting up Twitter with their new speculation about Idris’ love-life.

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And, yes, desire is informed by a multitude of stuff–history, culture, assimilation, integration, self-hatred, etc.

Remember when Hollywood tried to beat us over the head in the 90s with all the “deep black people movies”? I know some of y’all remember hearing about Wesley Snipes (enjoy your prison stay!

And, it’s crazy — because when I told about my abuse, Black women attacked me. And then when the reports came out, [they’d say] ’oh, I always believed you! When I sang about what it was — it was Black women.

’ That doesn’t heal that scar that you called me a liar for two years and I’m trying to be a role model.” She added about Elba, “So, when it got to Idris, I’m once again [getting attacked]. They were @-ing him, and were like ‘Ew, she’s not good enough for you.’ It was bad, they’d [say things] like ‘Ew, he would never,’ or ‘Ew, why are you dating someone like that? Well, that’s not all that Michelle had to say about her relationship with Elba.“I thought it was disgusting, the backlash that I got from Black women. You determine if it’s good, you determine if it’s bad.’” Michelle explained that she was hurt that people bashed her for dating Elba and said that she wasn’t good enough for him.My whole career, the women that I fight for have been the women that attack me. “We parted on mutual terms, so I never bashed him and I never will.We’d probably would still even be close friends, but I came out — and it wasn’t for no album sales because I write about every man I date. See what she had to say about their sex life, as well as what she learned from their relationship, after the cut.Idris Elba is a dope actor, but as we all know, that sometimes takes a back seat when it comes to either his looks, or his women. (1) because the ladies LOVE them some Idris; and (2) because he’s typically pretty secretive about his love life.And, it’s crazy — because when I told about my abuse, Black women attacked me. And then when the reports came out, [they’d say] ’oh, I always believed you! When I sang about what it was — it was Black women. You don’t know that through everything with this man, through his father passing — I was there. But, instead of women being like ‘Wow, our idol, you know, the man we put on this pedestal is human! I told him, I said his pants were too tight and his accent was funny. Michelle had to say about ending her ‘beef’ with Tamar Braxton, how she really feels about leaving ‘Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta,’ and more!