It’s a scary feeling when a guy you’re seeing seems to be pulling away.

You aren’t sure if he’s actually withdrawing or if your own insecurities are acting up and making you paranoid.

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He may not have been pulling away at first because of anything to do with you, but he’ll probably start pulling away for real as a result of your behavior.

MORE: The Top 3 Reasons Why Men Pull Away We’re going to look at the things men do that cause women to panic and think men are withdrawing and losing interest.

when his behavior is actually perfectly normal or caused by something totally unrelated to his feelings for her.

The problem is that panicking can create a problem where there wasn’t one in the first place.

[Click here to keep reading…] An emotionally unavailable guy isn’t the same as an emotionally abusive guy.

He isn’t a bad guy, he doesn’t do things to intentionally hurt you.

Essentially, it feels like he has a wall that you just can’t break through.

A guy can be emotionally unavailable for many different reasons.

She thinks maybe his ex really did a number on him and now he’s all messed up and he needs her love in order to heal, and he’ll give her the commitment she wants. One of you sheepishly says: “So, anyway…” but you’re just kind of stuck and a painful silence lingers in the air. Even worse, they seem to happen more with people we just meet and more so with someone we want to make a good impression on. I’m giving you specific strategies you can use so that you never have to worry about running out of things to say on a date. Even in the most amicable situations, there is healing to do, whether you get back together in the end or not.