If one or both of you has a cuckold fantasy, it's worth talking about.

He even likes it when I sext with guys while we're having sex together so he can read it. I have done this a few times for him now, and I've found that I do not physically or emotionally enjoy the sex with other men.

I am able to go through the motions and act like I love it.

The word "cuckold" derives from the name of the cuckoo bird, which has a habit of laying its eggs in other birds' nests.

The association and the sexual implications are common in medieval folklore and literature, although the older usages usually imply that the husband is unaware of his wife's adultery.

Immediately, my husband became way more interested in sex with me.

At first I absolutely loved it, although I was curious about why this turned him on so much.

Her fantasy may be a secret affair with a celebrity, someone at the office, or perhaps just a sexy and willing figment of her imagination.

Most women never act on these (normal, healthy) impulses, but some couples do -- in a totally consensual way.

I have now refused to do another cuckold scenario until he's willing to fulfill some of my fantasies as well, although that has not yet happened.