Plus, you’re forcing a reaction and what do you seriously expect her to say?“OMG you’re so hot I wanna f*ck your brains out right now baby, what’s your address?!There’s no excuses for falling into the friend zone and even if you think it’s impossible to answer some of her texts with anything other than a friend to friend response then you’re wrong. You might think the only possible answer you can give is “it’s going great, how’s yours”, but instead, this is the perfect opportunity to tease her: “clearly it’s going much better than yours! This way, she’ll probably reply by saying, “nah, mine’s way, way better than yours” and from there you can move into a much more playful frame. Don’t try too hard to act aloof and indifferent all the time.

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Rules of dating and texting video

Remember, girls look for what you’re sub communicating in your texts, not what you actually say.

Always try to keep your texts as short and sweet as possible.

Even if the impact you made on her was badass, it’s important you show her you’re not just a one trick pony and keep the fun alive.

So no meaningless texts like “how are you doing”, “what’s up” and “hi”, which will contribute nothing of value to her image of you. Trying to arrange a date before you’ve made a girl excited to see you again is a fatal mistake countless guys make over and over again.

Make sure you change the subject and once the joke is over, don’t keep going back to it if you’ve got nothing better to say.

It doesn’t matter how insanely fun you were when you met her because she’ll forget all those positive emotions as soon as you fail to maintain the vibe.

Your level of investment must either match or be lower than hers, so adapt to her texting style and respond in tune with her. To avoid slipping into the friend zone at all costs, avoid idle chit chat like the plague.

Tease her, play with her, include her on inside jokes so the feelings of fun and attraction she felt for you when you first met are not only maintained but amped up, so your texts light up her eyes rather than dull her day with the burden of having to text you back.

If you’re at the office and she texts you early afternoon, wait until you finish work. Love Panky talked more about picking the right time to text her here. It just ain’t cool and she won’t think you care about her if you don’t get back until the next day.

If you do reply to her one day later don’t be surprised if she doesn’t text back because you simply don’t deserve it. It’s ok to continue an ongoing joke you had going when you met her, but if you stick to the same joke for too long, it’ll get old.

Also, this way, when you’re fresh in her mind, she’ll remember you right away next time your number pops up!