Women are mysterious creatures, and when you're growing up and getting your hormones, they are pretty much all you think about.

The desire to somehow control her, either through stories, videos and movies, can be an outlet for them.

The image attached, for example, is a very powerful one--but the video from which it comes is not.

Howie The line in my post about being sick of the subject matter is a direct quote from bleumune's post, which I directly attribute to him, and his post is only 1 post removed from mine.

So me saying that isn't a statement that I will no longer engage with the subject, but rather a reflection of what other people on the board are saying about it.

I think I've mentioned this story a few times on the board.

When the movie was released, I was coming off a particularly tough breakup with a young woman.

I've never been married but I lived with a girl for a couple years who was aware of my bondage fetish.

In fact, the reason we get together was that she was into the same stuff, although not nearly to the same degree.

Sorry, guys, but you don't get to post half a dozen more comments extolling the supposed legitimacy for your lack of empathy for the cop and then suggest that you're all sick and tired of the topic so no one else should post any more on it. Your justifications for your lack of empathy get more inexplicable as you go on.

Now you argue that we should not feel empathy for him because we do not share the same kinks as he had, as if only our own kinks are worthy of empathy. I just posted a book long post talking about how I'm into Rape, Torture, and Snuff fantasy, and your take away from that is that I'm saying I haven no empathy for him because our tastes differ?

I mean, who hasn't been ignored, been humiliated by or been flat out rejected by the pretty girl in school?

A lot of guys (and not just the ones who have the fetish) don't have the social skills that endear them to women, and they go their whole lives never learning what it takes to attract them.

I know that would require that you actually read and comprehend at the same time to get that, so it's understandable that this point was completely missed by you.